Heat the ghee/oil in a large pot, add mustard seeds, let them crackle and then followed by add fenugreek seeds, whole red chili, cinnamon, cloves, curry leaves, asafetida and peanuts. Saute until the peanuts brown and then add ginger chili paste, red chili powder, asafoetida and sauté for few seconds. Add chopped tomato and sauté it for few seconds, and add boiled dal, kokum, jaggery, and all the other spices like red chili powder, turmeric, salt, coriander-cumin powder,